"I dont cook & my future husband will get me a chef.."

[MichelangeloWHO]

this mentality is... :disgusted

[DiorGirl]

this mentality is... :disgusted

Did a girl say this to you?
Bewteen this and your thread in the sex forum....:disappoin We need to find someone for you

[just jess]

jesus where are you going fishing boy!?

[ShaE]

this mentality is... :disgusted
this wouldn't be happening if there weren't actual men dumb enough to do it lol

i dont encourage this, but they wouldn't be thinking it if it didn't happen.

[MichelangeloWHO]

lol.. yes this was actually said to me. I was speachless....

I'm not looking for the mother of my children right now but jeez why would I take you seriously after that?

[Toni Bunz]

I just can't understand how a women doesn't want to feed their family :disappoin

[LiTtLeE OnEe]

i dont cook, but i will eventually make enough money to hire a chef.

until then, im learning how to cook lol

[Toni Bunz]

at least you want to learn though...some women don't give a shit enough to even want to learn.
I would feel embarrassed if I ever said anything like that to someone.

[~Frankie~]

at least you want to learn though...some women don't give a shit enough to even want to learn.
I would feel embarrassed if I ever said anything like that to someone.



Toni that's because we're "nice Italian girls" and raised in more traditional families!!! LOL

Sad but true....most girls today really do have that mentality it's sad.


Here's it's very common for women to think that way....my friends laugh at me because I have a very "old school" mentality....but then again I come from the old country....I was born into a very traditional house...I dunno to each their own I guess.

[LiTtLeE OnEe]

at least you want to learn though...some women don't give a shit enough to even want to learn.
I would feel embarrassed if I ever said anything like that to someone.

yehhh im really just spoiled bc my mom cooks every night, so i never had to cook for myself, but now im starting to cook with her, but i still sceeve raw chicken :disgusted

[antknee]

i dont cook, but i will eventually make enough money to hire a chef.

until then, im learning how to cook lol

i don't beleive it.

[~Frankie~]

yehhh im really just spoiled bc my mom cooks every night, so i never had to cook for myself, but now im starting to cook with her, but i still sceeve raw chicken :disgusted


Hey at least you're trying...that's more than a lot of people can say!!! Not everyone is born to cook....the attempt is much greater than the accomplishment!!!

[Greyho]

I am about to set the womens movement back about 100 years, but EVERYONE woman should know/attempt to learn how to cook.

[MichelangeloWHO]

Hey at least you're trying...that's more than a lot of people can say!!! Not everyone is born to cook....the attempt is much greater than the accomplishment!!!

Agreed... If I saw someone willing to learn & was horrible I prob. would geta cook but the fact that she tried would be nice.

[~Frankie~]

I am about to set the womens movement back about 100 years, but EVERYONE woman should know/attempt to learn how to cook.


No one shoot me but I agree! :lol

More because everyone should know how to fend for themselves....and that doesn't mean going to buy take out every night!!!!

[James Maxx]

I am about to set the womens movement back about 100 years, but EVERYONE woman should know/attempt to learn how to cook.


Didn't they used to have cooking classes in high school back in the 40s and 50s?

[Demz]

i personally take pride in my cookin.. i love that i can cook and i find that it turns guys on when u talk about makin a nice pot of sauce on a sunday with meatballs n some nice wine...:agree

plus its relaxing.. wtf is wrong with some girls i cant even tell u bc i cant fathom it

[LiTtLeE OnEe]

i don't beleive it.

die die dieee. kidding, but seriously...

im gonna take cooking classes over the summer, wanna take them with me?


Hey at least you're trying...that's more than a lot of people can say!!! Not everyone is born to cook....the attempt is much greater than the accomplishment!!!

:agree

but it is nice to have a good end result

[MichelangeloWHO]

i personally take pride in my cookin.. i love that i can cook and i find that it turns guys on when u talk about makin a nice pot of sauce on a sunday with meatballs n some nice wine...:agree

plus its relaxing.. wtf is wrong with some girls i cant even tell u bc i cant fathom it

Exactly... a way to man's heart is through his....

[antknee]

die die dieee. kidding, but seriously...

im gonna take cooking classes over the summer, wanna take them with me?


no thanks. lol. i can already kina cook myself. i feel for whomever has to consume your creations.

[Demz]

Exactly... a way to man's heart is through his....

YUPPPP LOL... the last guy i dated use 2 fight with me that his moms sauce is better then mine.... yet he wont even taste it bc hes skared im right.. kinda funny

[blondie]

i cook and clean like a mofo

it relaxes me :heart

i'm a career bitch now but i'm a housewife at heart :shuffle

[Aspano]

At least you know that she's honest, hah

[Demz]

i cook and clean like a mofo

it relaxes me :heart

i'm a career bitch now but i'm a housewife at heart :shuffle

me2... im not gunna lie.. my goal is 2 b a house wife .... :agree

sucks it prob will never happen in todays economy especially on LI

[MichelangeloWHO]

I would not want my wife to clean... she needs to save that energy :HUMP

[Demz]

I would not want my wife to clean... she needs to save that energy :HUMP

hahahah

yea i def dont like 2 clean.. i do it bc i have 2.. but cooking is much more fun!!!

[blondie]

o.c.d, how can i splain it?

[antknee]

a woman who has no desire to work, cook or clean....can :booted All stems from having a spoiled upbringing. I know this is a new day & age, but some values still need to be retained....one of which is this.

[ShaE]

I just can't understand how a women doesn't want to feed their family :disappoin
well, not everyone has a family to feed, and to some people cooking is more of a hobby. if you grew up w/ your fam cooking for you, then you had means to buy your food all the time & never really got into cooking for the "fun of it", I can see not knowing how to cook really.

some people are willing to pay for the convenience of not having to prepare their own meals. when they move in w/ someone, or have a fam, i guess they either split duties, pay for food, or learn :shrugger

i enjoy cooking, so it's not a problem, but I know people who just never learned and really don't care to lol

[JenniFa]

i think traditionally a woman cooking has gone out the window due to women having careers. I do know how to cook and i am still learning, but i cant say i will cook everynight either..


my mom cooked for us everynight, but she also didnt work and didnt go back to work until i was already in 3rd grade

[ShaE]

Toni that's because we're "nice Italian girls" and raised in more traditional families!!! LOL

Sad but true....most girls today really do have that mentality it's sad.


Here's it's very common for women to think that way....my friends laugh at me because I have a very "old school" mentality....but then again I come from the old country....I was born into a very traditional house...I dunno to each their own I guess.
if a woman can afford to hire a chef, more fkin power to her. if she expects to sit on her ass while her husband pays for one, that's sad.

[ShaE]

I am about to set the womens movement back about 100 years, but EVERYONE woman should know/attempt to learn how to cook.
since most families involve two people working, who knows who gets home first, i'll go a step further and say both the man and woman should both know how to cook and feed their family.

both my parents can cook, both of them did, two is better than one lol

[Greyho]

i think traditionally a woman cooking has gone out the window due to women having careers. I do know how to cook and i am still learning, but i cant say i will cook everynight either..


my mom cooked for us everynight, but she also didnt work and didnt go back to work until i was already in 3rd grade
Depends on the type of woman. I cook 5 days a week, and I work full time, some times 10 hour days. I get in the door a little after 6, and I cook every night of the week.

[blondie]

a woman who has no desire to work, cook or clean....can :booted All stems from having a spoiled upbringing. I know this is a new day & age, but some values still need to be retained....one of which is this.

i was spoiled and the only child and i cook, clean and work my ass off :snobbish

[antknee]

i was spoiled and the only child and i cook, clean and work my ass off :snobbish

u know what i mean. those who were spoiled, and never appreciated thigns that were given to them.....and still carry that mentality now.

[Demz]

somtimes my dad fights over whos gunna cook...my mom cooks only certain things good.. my dad puts too many spices in his meals soo i usually get heart burn lol...

[Greta J]

a woman who has no desire to work, cook or clean....can :booted All stems from having a spoiled upbringing. I know this is a new day & age, but some values still need to be retained....one of which is this.

I AGREE..

.. women that dont work .. like to cook or clean are useless AND NOT A REAL woman.. those are the ones that usually become PSYCHO bc they have too much time on their hands LOL

[Katrina]

a woman should know how to cook but in the case of marriage, husband and wife should cook together here and there, and he should even cook some nights if the wife gets home late.. its only fair :agree

[~Frankie~]

All the women in my family are housewives with the exception of my mother who for 30 years got home from work and cooked for 9 people every night. I dunno I'd rather be at home cooking, cleaning and raising my children. Women who choose to stay home are not lazy...being a housewife is a lot of work....if you no believe give it a try!!!

[Aspano]

All the women in my family are housewives with the exception of my mother who for 30 years got home from work and cooked for 9 people every night. I dunno I'd rather be at home cooking, cleaning and raising my children. Women who choose to stay home are not lazy...being a housewife is a lot of work....if you no believe give it a try!!!

jklsgjkahglk the way you phrased that jus made me crack up hahhh

[poppa pri]

I just can't understand how a women doesn't want to feed their family :disappoin


a woman should know how to cook but in the case of marriage, husband and wife should cook together here and there, and he should even cook some nights if the wife gets home late.. its only fair :agree

plz pm me your ring finger size, i will go shopping for BIG FAT DIAMOND RINGS...lol

[Katrina]

plz pm me your ring finger size, i will go shopping for BIG FAT DIAMOND RINGS...lol

they better not be diamonds in bulk from china lol

[~Frankie~]

jklsgjkahglk the way you phrased that jus made me crack up hahhh


:lol that's the way I speak....it's FOB talk! I can no help! LMFAO I'm like a younger version of everyones mom!!! LMFAO

[blondie]

ummm speaking of


what are you hos making for dinner tonight?

[antknee]

ummm speaking of


what are you hos making for dinner tonight?

roasted tomato soup...i'll bump the recipe thread im using.

[blondie]

roasted tomato soup...i'll bump the recipe thread im using.

mmmmm sounds yummy....

i had tomato soup for lunch with grilled cheese and BACON :heart

[poppa pri]

they better not be diamonds in bulk from china lol

lol never, only blood diamonds straight out of africa lol

[antknee]

mmmmm sounds yummy....

i had tomato soup for lunch with grilled cheese and BACON :heart

:spitfall that grilled cheeze combo is my speciality.

[~Frankie~]

LOL I'm not cooking tonight my family is here visiting from Italy and we're going to Mandarin! LOL Ok wait forgot you guys don't have mandarin...LOL...it's a massive chinese buffet food chain....every wop loves it for some weird reason! LOL

[Bekim...]

women have to cook and clean and do laundry and take care of the kids period.

[Katrina]

women have to cook and clean and do laundry and take care of the kids period.

i never do laundry :snobbish
the laundromat does it and folds it too :agree i am def spoiled in the laundry department

[~Frankie~]

I dunno maybe it's a complex but I don't like the idea of someone else washing my clothes or cleaning my house...it gives me the creeps! LOL I don't want a stranger touching my mutandi!!! LOL

[antknee]

i never do laundry :snobbish
the laundromat does it and folds it too :agree i am def spoiled in the laundry department

not i....but i do manage to mix colored's w/ whites, from time to time :shuffle

[blondie]

I dunno maybe it's a complex but I don't like the idea of someone else washing my clothes or cleaning my house...it gives me the creeps! LOL I don't want a stranger touching my mutandi!!! LOL

ferrealzies

laundry is such a royal pain in my ass but the thought of that raggedy ass bitch at the laundromat touching mine and my man's drawers gives me the heebie jeebies :paranoid

i'm doing some tonight as a matter of fact :laundry

i even sit in the basket like that and wait and everything lol

[ShaE]

I like to cook, I like to clean, but I'll be goddamned if I do it all myself. We both work hard outside the home, so it's a lazy man that would let me do everything, I don't like laziness. I cook, so he washes dishes. I clean the house, he picks up after himself. When I don't want to cook, he will most definitely try or we'll go out to eat.

I don't want kids so what the heck would I stay at home for? I could absolutely never be happy being married and being home not having a job.

[Katrina]

ferrealzies

laundry is such a royal pain in my ass but the thought of that raggedy ass bitch at the laundromat touching mine and my man's drawers gives me the heebie jeebies :paranoid

i'm doing some tonight as a matter of fact :laundry

i even sit in the basket like that and wait and everything lol

undergarments are a diff story!
i handwash all my underclothes myself not only cuz i skeeve someone else doin it but because it saves the fabrics theyre made from, i would never bring em to anyone else

but the rest of my stuff they can do for me, thanks lol

[DJ Becka]

Toni that's because we're "nice Italian girls" and raised in more traditional families!!! LOL

Sad but true....most girls today really do have that mentality it's sad.


Here's it's very common for women to think that way....my friends laugh at me because I have a very "old school" mentality....but then again I come from the old country....I was born into a very traditional house...I dunno to each their own I guess.

:agree

Case in my point.....my roommate's girlfriend....she openly said she doesn't cook. I don't know what he is going to do when we leave, because I do most of the cooking around here for everyone. He cooks too, and does it well, but I highly doubt he'll be down with cooking every day. My boyfriend also cooks, but he only does it when there is something specific he gets a craving for, or when I´m sick and don't feel like cooking.

I love to cook though....I think I would feel like less of a woman if I didn't :shuffle

[BabyDee]

:disappoin

[woo]

i get seriously annoyed when a guy doesnt cook bc he expects the girl to do it. girls tend to cook more in general so yeah it can make snese but seriousl boys... take control of the flames and skill the skillet! its art baby art....:COOKING G

[Greta J]

i get seriously annoyed when a guy doesnt cook bc he expects the girl to do it. girls tend to cook more in general so yeah it can make snese but seriousl boys... take control of the flames and skill the skillet! its art baby art....:COOKING G

you = :heart :pretty

[Toni Bunz]

i get seriously annoyed when a guy doesnt cook bc he expects the girl to do it. girls tend to cook more in general so yeah it can make snese but seriousl boys... take control of the flames and skill the skillet! its art baby art....:COOKING G

I think it's okay for the man to cook once in a while I guess....and definitely should man the grill at all times.

I grew up in a house where the men sit at the table and have everything served to them (or everything is out on the table and they serve themselves kinda thing). When they are finished, the women clean the table and do the dishes. To me, this is normal and that is how it will be when I get married.


My cousin doesn't cook much, but only because her husband is an amazing cook and loves to do it. But she does mostly everything else around the house.... so I guess it depends on the situation....

[ShaE]

women are expected to do all this cooking,

yet by vast majority, most of the world's chefs are men.:hmmm
my dad cooked most of the time b/c he got home first and he likes it. he grew up in a family of 9 and was the one to help my grandmother cook every night. in that house, you all cleaned up, and that's how my house was growing up.

everybody has to do what's cool for them, but i appreciate the hell out of it when i cook something, we eat, and then i get to sit back & relax while he scrubs lol

[JerZgirL]

Everyone should know how to cook. So you don't die of starvation. The reason some girls ( & i use this term purposely) think this way is b/c some men let them think that they can get whatever then want b/c they're overly tan with a fake rack that some guy she got on her knees for bought for her. News flash bitches: real women cook. The people who can't and are trying deserve gold stars. At least you tried. Plus restaurants get expensive.

[TheHipHopBillGates]

Lack of domestic skills the no.1 turn off next to being ugly, but if you have a career just pull your weight and meet me 1/2 way in the kitchen and I'll be a happy negro, expecting a woman to slave away all the time while you since on the couch has been out since Archie Bunker died.

[libanker34]

All the women in my family are housewives with the exception of my mother who for 30 years got home from work and cooked for 9 people every night. I dunno I'd rather be at home cooking, cleaning and raising my children. Women who choose to stay home are not lazy...being a housewife is a lot of work....if you no believe give it a try!!!

My mom did it all our lives..she didn't cook for 9, but she did cook for 4... . she worked full time and came home and had a full meal on the table every night. She used to joke that when we were bad we would have to eat Peanut butter and jelly and she wouldn't cook lol.. I give her a lot of credit

[J. Martin]

a golddigger who can't cook? Prospective husbands must be lining up