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ShaE
04-15-2009, 02:16 AM
b/c a bunch of assholes at his school taunted him for supposedly being "gay"


<TABLE cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width=852 border=0><TBODY><TR><TD class=Story_Copy vAlign=top width=570><!-- ARTICLE --><SCRIPT type=text/javascript>addthis_pub = 'GLSEN_2008'; addthis_logo = 'http://www.glsen.org/images/glsen_logo_addthis.png';addthis_logo_background = 'EFEFFF';addthis_logo_color = '666699';addthis_brand = 'GLSEN';addthis_options = 'favorites, email, digg, delicious, myspace, facebook, google, live, more';</SCRIPT><SCRIPT src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/152/addthis_widget.js" type=text/javascript></SCRIPT>11-Year-Old Hangs Himself after Enduring Daily Anti-Gay Bullying

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Apr 09, 2009</TD><TD vAlign=bottom align=right><TABLE><TBODY><TR><TD width=130>http://s7.addthis.com/button1-share.gif (http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php)</TD><TD style="PADDING-RIGHT: 15px; PADDING-LEFT: 15px">http://www.glsen.org/images/wrapper/icon_email.gif (http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/emailafriend.html?url=http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/news/record/2400.html)</TD><TD>http://www.glsen.org/images/spacer.gif</TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>GLSEN Calls on Schools, Nation to Embrace Solutions to Bullying Problem
NEW YORK, April 9, 2009 - An 11-year-old Massachusetts boy, Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover, hung himself Monday after enduring bullying at school, including daily taunts of being gay, despite his mother's weekly pleas to the school to address the problem. This is at least the fourth suicide of a middle-school aged child linked to bullying this year.
Carl, a junior at New Leadership Charter School in Springfield who did not identify as gay, would have turned 12 on April 17, the same day hundreds of thousands of students will participate in the 13th annual National Day of Silence (http://www.dayofsilence.org/). by taking some form of a vow of silence to bring attention to anti-LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) bullying and harassment at school. The other <TABLE cellSpacing=5 cellPadding=5 align=left border=0><TBODY><TR><TD vAlign=center align=middle>http://www.glsen.org/images/cached/GLSEN_ARTICLESimage_large2400w200hnorm-.jpg</TD><TR><TR><TD vAlign=center align=middle></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>three known cases of suicide among middle-school students took place in Chatham, Evanston and Chicago, Ill., in the month of February.
"Our hearts go out to Carl's mother, Sirdeaner L. Walker, and other members of Carl's family, as well as to the community suffering from this loss," GLSEN Executive Director Eliza Byard said. "As we mourn yet another tragedy involving bullying at school, we must heed Ms. Walker�s urgent call for real, systemic, effective responses to the endemic problem of bullying and harassment. Especially in this time of societal crisis, adults in schools must be alert to the heightened pressure children face, and take action to create safe learning environments for the students in their care. In order to do that effectively, as this case so tragically illustrates, schools must deal head-on with anti-gay language and behavior."
Two of the top three reasons students said their peers were most often bullied at school were actual or perceived sexual orientation and gender expression, according to From Teasing to Torment: School Climate in America (http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/library/record/1859.html), a 2005 report by GLSEN and Harris Interactive. The top reason was physical appearance.
"As was the case with Carl, you do not have to identify as gay to be attacked with anti-LGBT language," Byard said. "From their earliest years on the school playground, students learn to use anti-LGBT language as the ultimate weapon to degrade their peers. In many cases, schools and teachers either ignore the behavior or don�t know how to intervene."
Nearly 9 out of 10 LGBT youth (86.2%) reported being verbally harassed at school in the past year because of their sexual orientation, nearly half (44.1%) reported being physically harassed and about a quarter (22.1%) reported being physically assaulted, according to GLSEN�s 2007 National School Climate Survey (http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/library/record/2340.html) of more than 6,000 LGBT students.
In most cases, the harassment is unreported. Nearly two-thirds of LGBT students (60.8%) who experience harassment or assault never reported the incident to the school. The most common reason given was that they didn�t believe anything would be done to address the situation. Of those who did report the incident, nearly a third (31.1%) said the school staff did nothing in response. While LGBT youth face extreme victimization, bullying in general is also a widespread problem. More than a third of middle and high school students (37%) said that bullying, name-calling or harassment is a somewhat or very serious problem at their school, according to From Teasing to Torment. Bullying is even more severe in middle school. Two-thirds of middle school students (65%) reported being assaulted or harassed in the previous year and only 41% said they felt very safe at school.
Carl's suicide comes about a year after eighth-grader Lawrence King was shot and killed by a fellow student in a California classroom, allegedly because he was gay.
GLSEN recommends four simple approaches (http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/library/record/2263.html) schools can take to begin addressing bullying now. Said Walker in the Springfield Republican: "If anything can come of this, it's that another child doesn't have to suffer like this and there can be some justice for some other child. I don't want any other parent to go through this." About GLSEN
GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, is the leading national education organization focused on ensuring safe schools for all students. Established nationally in 1995, GLSEN envisions a world in which every child learns to respect and accept all people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. GLSEN seeks to develop school climates where difference is valued for the positive contribution it makes to creating a more vibrant and diverse community. For information on GLSEN's research, educational resources, public policy advocacy, student organizing programs and educator training initiatives, visit www.glsen.org.

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ShaE
04-15-2009, 02:19 AM
i hope the parents of the kids that did the bullying can live w/ themselves. what disgusting kids you're raising if this is how they treat others so young, already fucked up little brats.

genie
04-15-2009, 09:09 AM
Those parents will be disgusting. They will either be in denial or claim this kid should of been tougher. They will never take the blame or be compassionate and it is why their kids are the way they are.

Mothahen
04-15-2009, 09:45 AM
UGh look at his cute litle face...I already read this story and reading it again made me just as sick :disappoin

joeylima
04-15-2009, 11:06 AM
How sad...poor kid had his whole life ahead of him. :disappoin

jameznyhc
04-15-2009, 12:45 PM
i hope the parents of the kids that did the bullying can live w/ themselves. what disgusting kids you're raising if this is how they treat others so young, already fucked up little brats.

meanwhile you call children disgusting lol .. there being kids .. are kids mean and cruel? .. yes ..they dont have a fully developed sense of empathy and compassion of adults unfortunatly ..

metfan85
04-15-2009, 08:12 PM
meanwhile you call children disgusting lol .. there being kids .. are kids mean and cruel? .. yes ..they dont have a fully developed sense of empathy and compassion of adults unfortunatly ..

but according to our liberal friends they can be taught sex ed since they 5. I don't get it

sadelb
04-15-2009, 08:49 PM
but according to our liberal friends they can be taught sex ed since they 5. I don't get it

I hope your not referring to that smear campaign ad that the McCain campaign showed all October before the election. Because Obama made it quite clear that he wanted these classes to be all about sexual predators and for children to be warned about who could be dangerous. This is not about teaching 5 year olds about sex.

metfan85
04-15-2009, 09:32 PM
I hope your not referring to that smear campaign ad that the McCain campaign showed all October before the election. Because Obama made it quite clear that he wanted these classes to be all about sexual predators and for children to be warned about who could be dangerous. This is not about teaching 5 year olds about sex.

Have I ever gotten my information from a campaign ad? Take a walk.

This is a decades long problem, the over sexualization of our culture, the media introducing lgbthdfhjevtjz culture to the mainstream, and the sex ed being taught to our kids.

They don't know what gay is, nor should they. They're kids

joe!
04-15-2009, 09:39 PM
why not just express compassion for the story and for the child rather than make this a liberal/conservative issue?

Mathieu
04-15-2009, 09:41 PM
I feel really bad for the kid and his family. I hope the kids who did this get a a big time moral check.

ShaE
04-18-2009, 11:08 PM
meanwhile you call children disgusting lol .. there being kids .. are kids mean and cruel? .. yes ..they dont have a fully developed sense of empathy and compassion of adults unfortunatly ..
i said what disgusting kids THE PARENTS ARE RAISING if they taunt a peer to the point where he kills himself.

yes jamez, kids can be despicable human beings at 11 yrs old.

ShaE
04-18-2009, 11:09 PM
why not just express compassion for the story and for the child rather than make this a liberal/conservative issue?
seriously

ShaE
04-18-2009, 11:11 PM
but according to our liberal friends they can be taught sex ed since they 5. I don't get it
you better be kidding, the "sex ed" you refer to was appropriate education to help children identify and REPORT molestation.

you know how many kids don't tell they're being molested b/c the MOLESTOR tells them it's what "uncles do" or "friends do" etc and they know no better??

people said "sex ed" like 5 yrs olds ought to know about orgasms & they were gonna be given free condoms:rolleyes:

it's about PROTECTING kids by giving them AGE APPROPRIATE INFORMATION. unfortunately kids get abused, they need to know certain things.

jameznyhc
04-18-2009, 11:23 PM
i said what disgusting kids THE PARENTS ARE RAISING if they taunt a peer to the point where he kills himself.

yes jamez, kids can be despicable human beings at 11 yrs old.

tyhere not despicable they dont have a sense of empathy or compassion .. they havent developed .. you can have great parents and still decide to be a prick .. life isnt fair .. and being a kid is hard .. thats life .. to call a child despicable for being mean or teasing someone is really stupid to expect them to have the same level of respect as an adult mind ..

jameznyhc
04-18-2009, 11:26 PM
you better be kidding, the "sex ed" you refer to was appropriate education to help children identify and REPORT molestation.

you know how many kids don't tell they're being molested b/c the MOLESTOR tells them it's what "uncles do" or "friends do" etc and they know no better??

people said "sex ed" like 5 yrs olds ought to know about orgasms & they were gonna be given free condoms:rolleyes:

it's about PROTECTING kids by giving them AGE APPROPRIATE INFORMATION. unfortunately kids get abused, they need to know certain things.

identifying molesting is not sex ed .. here is teaching a kid about about molestation .. johnny never let a man or woman touch you there if they do tell your parents as soon as you can .. i think alex was referring the graphic nature ..if a kid gets molested shae he knows its wrong ..

just b u
04-19-2009, 11:59 AM
why not just express compassion for the story and for the child rather than make this a liberal/conservative issue?
having compassion for the poor child goes without saying. discussing the reasons or causes of why this happens in a society is just as important. just saying compassionate words will help no one and solve nothing.

ShaE
04-19-2009, 01:17 PM
tyhere not despicable they dont have a sense of empathy or compassion .. they havent developed .. you can have great parents and still decide to be a prick .. life isnt fair .. and being a kid is hard .. thats life .. to call a child despicable for being mean or teasing someone is really stupid to expect them to have the same level of respect as an adult mind ..
they have found that INFANTS show empathy and compassion jamez.

toddlers.

don't tell me 11 yr olds do not have empathy or compassion, BULLSHIT. i knew damn well from a very early age that being cruel and mean to others is WRONG and if you do it, you're doing wrong, b/c i had good parents that TAUGHT me.

these parents suck, clearly,and their kids are evidence of it

ShaE
04-19-2009, 01:21 PM
having compassion for the poor child goes without saying. discussing the reasons or causes of why this happens in a society is just as important. just saying compassionate words will help no one and solve nothing.
why gay people are persecuted, beaten, or taunted in society? yeah why is that?

hell we don't even know this kid was gay, it could've just been what kids said about him, we have no way of knowing.

but why would gay people be picked on by straight people? be told you can have this, but not that, that's ours. be treated differently, i've no idea . it's all tied together, stigmatizing them.

TrippinFace101
04-19-2009, 02:17 PM
why gay people are persecuted, beaten, or taunted in society? yeah why is that?

hell we don't even know this kid was gay, it could've just been what kids said about him, we have no way of knowing.

but why would gay people be picked on by straight people? be told you can have this, but not that, that's ours. be treated differently, i've no idea . it's all tied together, stigmatizing them.

This is a sad story. But life isnt easy and isnt fair. You have alot of questions but will never find the answer

jameznyhc
04-19-2009, 02:53 PM
they have found that INFANTS show empathy and compassion jamez.

toddlers.

don't tell me 11 yr olds do not have empathy or compassion, BULLSHIT. i knew damn well from a very early age that being cruel and mean to others is WRONG and if you do it, you're doing wrong, b/c i had good parents that TAUGHT me.

these parents suck, clearly,and their kids are evidence of it

i said fully devoped thats why kids are meaner .. please learn had to read .. i didnt say NO empathy .. but children will not put themselves into anothers shoes ... the way an adult would

just b u
04-19-2009, 05:46 PM
why gay people are persecuted, beaten, or taunted in society? yeah why is that?

hell we don't even know this kid was gay, it could've just been what kids said about him, we have no way of knowing.

but why would gay people be picked on by straight people? be told you can have this, but not that, that's ours. be treated differently, i've no idea . it's all tied together, stigmatizing them.
it's not about straight or gay. its simply about intolerance, being different or a minority. It's easy to pick on someone who stands out, be it because of race, skin color, religion, sexuality, handicap, etc...

It's obviously the parents fault, i wouldnt say it's a societal problem. If your parents teach you to accept pple as they come, as they're born and whatever identity they are than it wouldnt be a problem. Our society as a whole does not teach contempt.

FrankDeets
04-19-2009, 05:58 PM
what a gay way to go out...

ShaE
04-19-2009, 07:51 PM
i said fully devoped thats why kids are meaner .. please learn had to read .. i didnt say NO empathy .. but children will not put themselves into anothers shoes ... the way an adult would
please spare me your lunacy

ShaE
04-19-2009, 07:53 PM
This is a sad story. But life isnt easy and isnt fair. You have alot of questions but will never find the answer
of course, i never was under the impression life was fair, but that doesn't mean bullshit can't anger me. especially cruelty, since i don't believe it comes naturally, i believe it's learned and taught.

TrippinFace101
04-20-2009, 09:33 PM
of course, i never was under the impression life was fair, but that doesn't mean bullshit can't anger me. especially cruelty, since i don't believe it comes naturally, i believe it's learned and taught.

Hate creates hate yeah you got a point on that.